Wednesday, February 27, 2019

TFAQ

The Tanya FAQ


  • Last updated: 6/1/2021
  • What are my vitals?
    • 6', 210 lbs
    • That's my hair in my pics (I've never had a wig I liked)
    • My ears are pierced.
    • I do not use breast forms, push up bras, or any padding.  What you see in my pictures is all me.  I dress around what I have and haven't got.
  • How often do I dress?
    • On average 1-2 hours per week; but that's never a given
  • Does my wife know?
    • She knows that I crossdress but does not want to see it.  I can keep my stash of stuff out of sight and dress when she and the kiddos are not at home.
  • How did she find out?
    • I told her when we were dating.  We almost broke up.  I went to therapy and stopped dressing for a while.
    • As you know, this stuff doesn't go away, there are seasons for it and others not.  It came back.  I dressed in secret.  She found a receipt; isn't it always the little stupid things like that which derail a perfectly "good" plan?
    • We went to a couples therapist.  The net outcome was that there is nothing wrong with the dressing if we can make it work for us AND as long as it does not lead to sinful behavior.
  • Where are the sexy pictures?
    • I don't take those.  Out of respect for myself and my wife, I don't want those falling into the wrong hands or worse having my wife find such pictures.
  • How/when/why did I start dressing?
    • Somewhere around 10 years old I stumbled upon my Dad's Playboy, Penthouse and Variations magazines.  I gravitated to the stories of crossdressing and TG.
    • About this same time I started trying on my Mom's and sisters clothing.  I was hooked immediately.  Oh I have such fond memories of my sisters one piece bathing suit - it was purple with tiny white dots.
    • I was never caught, but I do not know if anyone was on to me or not.